You do not just live in a world, but a world lives in you
I work with both singles and couples on their relationship goals.
I work by initially holding a consultation session with you. Based on our consultation, I put together a specific relationship counselling plan for you. The plan will include specific relationship topics I will cover during each session that are relevant for your needs, as well, as a timeline of our work together. We then get started. By the end of our time together, you will have learned about how happy, healthy relationships work and understand how to create one for yourself.
We see what we want to see and our partner does the same to avoid being alone or bringing up problems in the relationship , until it’s too late…
What many of us think of as a relationship is often just a need to fill the void; a desire to be with someone to avoid feeling empty, alone or afraid. A genuine relationship, however, is created by the deep, sincere connection between two people, a connection built through openness, honesty, and authenticity – not through a series of guidelines of do’s and don’ts found in articles in magazines and social media.
Establishing and maintaining a relationship is not a mechanical process that can be manipulated by tactics and strategies. You can’t just use the ‘right’ formula(e.g. calling the right number of times, writing clever texts, appearing detached etc.) and expect to a great relationship. Unfortunately, people often try to deal with the complexities of their romantic life by turning to rules or pretending to be someone they’re not to keep their partner interested.
My approach is to help people move past using tactics and game playing to keep their relationship going. Through my relationship counselling, I help people get to to a place in their relationship where it’s no longer a source of fear or anger, that needs to be constantly manipulated, but a soft spot to fall on when you’ve had a hard day.
With this knowledge and by applying the practical skills I will teach you, you and your partner will be able to get back on track and create a relationship that is full of happiness, love and intimacy.
We show our ideal self when dating, but want someone to love us for who we truly are – so how do you bridge the gap?
Our dating culture has trivialised finding a partner and building a relationship based on truth and integrity. We have become conditioned to go on lots and lots of dates with lots and lots of people. In the process we lose sight of individual worth and relationship values.
My aim is to undo this unsuccessful destructive, conditioning. I teach my clients the real meaning of a relationship, help them learn how to build on the values of a successful partnership and give them the tools to choose the right type of person for them, instead of just going on date after date with no results.
Nowadays, especially in large cities like London, people will date for the sake of dating. The magic of dating, the specialness of spending time with someone and getting to truly know them has been replaced by an emphasis on volume.
A much wiser and more effective way to find a partner is to narrow down your search, being very clear about who you are and what you are looking for. In that way you can date with a higher rate of success and enjoyment rather than ricocheting from date to date, , becoming exhausted and cynical gradually losing hope that you’ll ever find “the one”.
By helping you understand who you are, and determining your values and the values you need to find in the right potential partner for you, you will learn how you can attract the right person and create the kind of relationship that you crave.